How to Create a More Magical Life: No Competition! stop judging and comparing yourself with others.
Be Your True, amazing, Authentic Self!
If something is working for someone, it doesn’t mean you must stop how you’re doing something and change to what they’re doing. Especially if what you’re doing is working for you! Especially if you are being YOU in the process!
Please don’t compare yourself, think you’re doing something wrong, and judge yourself into oblivion!
When you compare yourself to others, or you think you need to do what others are doing or saying, you aren’t being you, you aren’t being your authentic self.
It’s just not kind to YOU.
Nor is it the TRUTH of the situation!
Being yourself is the only thing you can really be!
Trying to be someone else, what you think your mom wants you to be, or what you think your dad wants you to be, or to be like your sibling, your grandparents, your teachers, your friends….well, that just is fake, plus it’s hard!
Let’s do the ease-filled thing and BE YOURSELF! No Competition!
Recently I was in a situation where you could say the booth I did at a fair with a couple of other Access Consciousness® Certified Facilitators was in competition with a booth on the other side of the fair being run by a few other Access Consciousness® Certified Facilitators. Although I’d signed up first for the fair last spring, and the organizers of the fair promised no competition, they allowed the others in that fair because one of the facilitators had a long history doing fairs there with her own business.
I knew this, and was not surprised when they had another booth at this end of summer fair. In fact, we’d talked and considered having our booths next to each other, but while talking then, I felt the energy of competition rising. She opted to go across the fair.
That past spring Fair there was time I was in competition and contracted. I felt weird that they were there. I mentioned something about their booth to my collaborating co-host facilitator friend and she asked me a question. It was, “What if you could be in allowance of their choice?”
That shifted the energy immediately for me. Allowance. Competition is halted by Allowance!
I don’t appreciate it when people are not in allowance of my point of view. So why would I want to judge someone on theirs?
and Voila! All of a sudden there was no competition on my end! I didn’t care! I was not trying to control them or their actions. It didn’t affect me, it didn’t matter what they were doing. I moved to allowance immediately! It was so easy.
That was how it was this time for me. I didn’t think twice about the other “Access” booth, I wasn’t worried, it didn’t affect me. Sometimes fair goers mentioned their booth or one of the facilitators involved in that booth brought up competition or issues with images used(on Facebook). I was cool with it. I was in awareness of everyone’s choices.
We decided our booth this time was focused on reaching, as many people that were interested in expanding their awareness, and to assist them in whatever way we could, with our Access Bars, or with energy clearings, or with energy healing. It was such ease, joy and glory for me!
Next time you are trying for NO COMPETITION, use that question, “What if you could be in allowance of their choice?
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